“Listen, are you breathing just a little, and calling it a life?”

Mary Oliver

Skills-based and Somatic Psychotherapy for Adults, Couples, and Therapists

Meet Tara

Come as you are. Begin again.

Those two ideas hold most of what I believe about therapy. You do not need to arrive polished or figured out. And if you have tried before and it fell apart, that is not the end of the story. We begin again.

I am in it with you. I listen closely, and I remember what you tell me. Clients often say it feels less like an appointment and more like having someone deeply in your corner, someone who is actually paying attention.

Who I Work With

I work with adults who have suffered for a long time. That might look like struggling to function day to day, cycling through relapse, staying in relationships that just don't fit, poor coping skills, feeling weighed down by the burdens of life, or searching for real meaning. It might also look like functioning perfectly well on the outside while feeling numb underneath. People who have done the work, read the books, tried the modalities, and still feel like something is missing.

I also work with therapists. The ones who got into this field from their own wound, who give beautifully and receive poorly, who are burning out and calling it dedication.

If you recognize yourself in either of those descriptions, I would like to hear from you.

What I Believe

My practice relies on genuine self inquiry, honest reflection, taking risks, vulnerability, slow problem solving, embracing life, and radical self acceptance. Just as much, it relies on finding the humor woven through existence, and learning how to laugh again.

I know what it is like to chase a peak experience and still feel unsteady underneath it. Real change tends to be quieter than that. It looks like showing up, again and again, for the version of yourself that is actually here, not the one you think you are supposed to become.

I am a little quirky, a little irreverent, and I am not interested in polished performances of wellness. I am not going to hand you a fantasy of who you could be. I am going to sit with you and help you build something real and sustainable inside the person you already are.

My Services

Learn how to be skillful with your thoughts and emotions

Skills Based Therapy

Body Centered Approaches

Integrate the physical body into the therapy process

Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy

Virtual therapy for individuals, couples, and groups

Consulting for Trust Fund Syndrome

Working with affluent families and their adult children

Become a highly skilled clinician

Supervision

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I am currently accepting new clients for private-pay therapy

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“Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror.

Just keep going. No feeling is final.”

- Rainer Maria Rilke